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Hey guys...thought I'd change the thread name so Fifi will be able to see it...actually on April 1st, since she is ahead of us one day. Happy April Fools Day, Fifi!! Beware of mean tricks. :ohshit:

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Welcome springsteen!

We're glad you're here and look forward to getting to know you.

Do you think that they work? I have been here before and posted about my ex in detail. I am still gone from that relationship, but find myself still having to deal with him. He has now changed his tune wants to come back, and while the idea of a family, a loving home swirls in my head, I am not caught up in it. I have not gone back...and really dont think Iwould. I still want my girl to have two loving parents. So anyways, today I wrote him a really hard letter. I told him I cared about him, and that our family should not be broken. But there is this lingering shadow in between us and it is called addiction. I emphasized that bc of his addictions I have been forced to hold my dreams for now. My second baby, my house etc...the masters degree. All on Hold, bc I am now a single mom, living on one income. I told him to get help, and that I would be there to help him through that. However, I would not, and do not have to be a part of his addiction.

we were at my daughters teeball practice and he leans over and asks me if he can borrow 50 to buy pot. Says it is his only friend when he works on the road. I emabarrased him, bc i got mad and spoke loudly...telling him I would not give him money for drugs. So my ultimatum was quit drugs, move out on your own, prove that you are in control of you life...and you dont need to be the "fun" guy. Bc beingthe person who has to deal with the twitches sucks. I knwo it is only pot, but it used to be coke. It really is about a trust issue. I am just really emotionally tired of him and "it". Two years later, I am okay with being co-parents. But I cant be the person who pulls him out of the fire all the time...well I dont. But my hunch is that his life is not great, and he is thinking that if we got back together then he could have more money bc he would nto be paying child support.

thoughts?

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